Advance directives

Planning end-of-life care is a complex matter. Although it is hard to talk about the final phase of life, it can be a great gift to our family and loved ones to prepare them in advance for the sometimes difficult and distressing decisions that must be made.

For those who wish to plan in advance, New York law can help. Ultimately, your decision to accept or reject medical treatment really depends upon your personal wishes, values, and beliefs. This guide explains your right to choose medical treatments and describes the steps you can take under state law to help ensure that your personal health care decisions are known and honored if you are unable to speak for yourself.

Preparing a few simple legal forms known as advance directives can help ensure that your wishes are respected and that your health care decisions stay in the hands of people you trust. This guide includes information about advance directive forms with tips on how to use them. We hope that you find this guide to be helpful.

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Advance-care planning affords you the opportunity to plan for future medical care in case you are unable to make your own decisions. It may include preparation of one or more straightforward legal forms — a health care proxy, for example — which can help to ensure that your health care decisions are followed and decisions are made by people you trust. Advance-care planning begins by thinking through possible future health care scenarios and having conversations with family and friends about your wishes.

Thinking about serious or terminal illness and talking about your wishes can be difficult. That is why it’s important to be well informed about the steps you may want to take. Here we discuss some of the most common legal options available to New Yorkers to help you understand those options and how to talk to your family and friends about them. Let’s start with some definitions. Each of the terms listed here will be discussed in more detail later.

It is particularly important to consider or reconsider your health care choices if you:

Terms to know

Make your wishes clear

Casual statements you may have made to your family, like “Don’t keep me alive on machines,” “No heroics,” or “Make sure I am not in pain” may not be specific enough to make it clear that you do not want certain medical procedures under certain circumstances.

Getting started

New York law grants you the right to accept or reject medical treatment, including life-prolonging procedures, such as mechanical respiration and tube or intravenous feeding. 1

As long as you are able to do so, you can speak directly to your doctor and your family members and let them know what care you may or may not want. But what if you are incapacitated, in a coma, for instance, the only way to be sure that your wishes will be known and honored is to plan for future medical care.

The first step towards planning your end-of-life care is to think through what type of care you may want, consistent with your values and beliefs. Discuss your wishes with your doctor, your family and loved ones. This is not an easy subject to deal with but it will help your family and loved ones know what kind of treatment you want. These questions may help you identify what kind of treatment you may or may not want if you are no longer able to decide for yourself.

Thinking about the care you want to receive in particular situations and talking with your doctor and loved ones about your health care wishes is an important step. Putting those wishes in writing is more effective to ensure that everyone involved has a clear and reliable view of the specifics. Appointing someone to decide health care matters for you may be an effective way to address situations that you may not be able to anticipate. The advance directives discussed above provide the vehicle for advance care planning so that you can make your wishes known and be the one to decide what works best for you.

How to select the right type of advance directive

How do you choose which advance directive might be best for you? Here are some questions and answers that may help:

If you are in a coma or vegetative state or otherwise incapacitated, would you want someone you trust to make medical decisions for you?

If the answer is yes, consider a health care proxy by appointing someone you trust as your Health Care Agent to speak and decide for you when you are unable to do so. (See below.) If the answer is no because you have no one you trust to act as your Health Care Agent, consider a living will so that your medical instructions are clear and can be read by your care givers when you are unable to communicate your wishes.

Even though you want someone you trust to make medical decisions, do you still have strongly held views about specific situations?

If yes, you may consider combining a health care proxy with a living will so that the person you appoint to act on your behalf can also rely on your written instructions to make decisions for you.
If no, then maybe just a health care proxy will meet your needs.

A health care proxy

You can complete a health care proxy form if you are 18 years of age or older. A health care proxy form, established under New York law, allows you to appoint someone you trust — a health care agent — to make health care decisions on your behalf if you are no longer able to do so. 2 You can tell your wishes to your agent orally or in writing. New York law requires hospitals and nursing homes to provide you with the health care proxy form and information about creating a proxy. 3

Below are some things to consider in writing and signing your health care proxy form.

Step 1: Understand your health care agent’s authority

Under New York’s Health Care Proxy Law, your agent’s authority to make health care decisions begins when your doctor determines that you have lost the capacity to make decisions for yourself. For a decision to withdraw or withhold life sustaining treatment, a second doctor must confirm your doctor’s decision.

You may give your health care agent as little or as much authority as you wish. In other words, you may allow your agent to make all health care decisions on your behalf or only certain ones.

Health care proxy form
A standard health care proxy form approved under New York law is provided on the New York State Department of Health website and is offered in English, Chinese, Haitian Creole, Korean, Russian and Spanish with detailed instructions. Download the form from the DOH website.

A health care agent’s rights and obligations under New York’s Health Care Proxy Law
Your health care agent can make decisions related to artificial nutrition and hydration (for example, use of a tube to give you food and water). You may either specifically tell your wishes to your agent or write your wishes in your health care proxy form.

Your agent will have the authority to decide whether or not your heart beat should be restarted through cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) unless you write in your health care proxy form that your agent cannot make this decision for you.

Once your agent’s authority begins, he or she has the right to get your medical information and records to make informed health care decisions for you.

Your agent’s decision is final unless an objecting family member or facility obtains a court order overriding the decision or disqualifying the agent.

Your agent is not financially responsible for the cost of your care.

Overall, your agent is required to make health care decisions for you according to your wishes, religious and moral beliefs, and in your best interest.

Should my health care agent live in the same city as I do?
While the law does not require you to name an agent living in the same city or state as you do, it is a good idea to choose someone who lives nearby. If you are terminally ill, for example, and unable to make decisions for yourself, your agent may have to spend weeks or even months nearby to ensure your health care wishes are followed.

Step 2: Choose a health care agent

Picking your health care agent is a very important decision. You generally have the right to appoint any competent adult (18 years of age or older) as your health care agent. Your agent may be your spouse or partner, an adult child, a relative, a close friend, or a lawyer. Choose someone you trust — and someone with whom you feel confident discussing your wishes for medical care. Your agent need not agree with all of your wishes, but must be capable of carrying them out, regardless of his or her own feelings. And, of course, it is always good practice to make sure the person you appointed as your agent is comfortable serving as your agent.

Under New York’s Health Care Proxy Law, you can appoint any competent adult as your health care agent except:

Step 3: Name an alternate health care agent as your backup agent

The health care proxy form gives you the option to appoint an alternate agent. Your alternate agent can take over from your first choice only if:

Step 4: Sign your health care proxy form

Two witnesses must watch you sign your health care proxy form and say that you appeared to sign willingly. Neither your agent nor your alternate agent can serve as a witness. You do not need to have the form notarized.

The standard health care proxy form approved under New York law has sections that must be completed for your proxy to be valid. The form also has “optional” sections that you may or may not choose to complete.

Make sure your health care proxy form meets the minimum requirements.

Minimum state requirements for a valid health care proxy form

A living will allows you to leave written instructions “ that explain your health care wishes, especially about end-of-life care.

Optional sections for a health care proxy form

Living will

While New York does not have a law governing living wills, the Court of Appeals, New York’s highest court, has stated that living wills are valid as long as they provide “clear and convincing” evidence of your wishes. 4 If you are 18 years of age or older, you may express your wishes in writing about your health care by signing a living will.

Below are some things to consider in planning and signing your living will.

Step 1: Understand the authority of your living will

A living will is a written declaration of your health care wishes. In your living will, you can leave specific instructions about medical treatments you may or may not want, when you are no longer able to decide for yourself. A living will serves as evidence of your wishes.

Step 2: Write your living will

Step 3: Sign your living will

It is best to have two witnesses watch you sign your living will, and sign a statement on the form that you appeared to sign willingly. If possible, you should have the form notarized, so that it may be recognized in states that require notarization.

Regardless of which living will form you choose to use, make sure you meet the minimum requirements for a living will:

Difference between a living will and a health care proxy

Although both a health care proxy and a living will are advance directives, they are not the same thing.

Living will
A living will is a document that contains your health care wishes and is addressed to unnamed family, friends, hospitals and other health care facilities. You may use a living will to specify your wishes about life-prolonging procedures and other end-of-life care so that your specific instructions can be read by your caregivers when you are unable to communicate your wishes.
Vs. Health care proxy
A health care proxy is a document that allows you to appoint another person(s) as your health care agent to make health care decisions on your behalf if you are no longer able to do so. You may give your health care agent authority to make decisions for you in all medical situations if you cannot speak for yourself. Thus, even in medical situations not anticipated by you, your agent can make decisions and ensure you are treated according to your wishes, values and beliefs.

Can I choose to sign both a living will and a health care proxy?

Yes. You have the right to create both a living will and a health care proxy in order to leave specific medical instructions in writing and appoint a health care agent to carry them out. Your health care agent can rely on your instructions as guidance to make decisions that reflect your wishes.

Do not resuscitate orders (DNR)

Under New York law, a DNR is a written order by the doctor that instructs medical professionals not to perform cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) to restart your heart or lungs when your heartbeat or breathing stops. 5 This means that doctors, nurses, or emergency personnel (i.e. paramedics) will not initiate emergency procedures such as mouth-to-mouth resuscitation, external chest compression, electric shock, insertion of tube to open your airway, or injection of medication into your heart or open chest. You can make your hospital DNR wishes known in your health care proxy, living will, or a state-approved MOLST form.

In New York, any adult 18 years or older can get a hospital or a non-hospital DNR order. A hospital DNR order is issued if you are in a health care facility such as a hospital, nursing home, or a mental hygiene facility licensed by New York State. Emergency personnel (EMS) must honor your hospital DNR order during transfer. But, if you are outside any of these facilities, at home, for example, you may want to get a non-hospital DNR order. Your non-hospital DNR order must be recorded on a state specific form [DOH-3474] and signed by a doctor.

Giving consent to a DNR order

If you have capacity to make decisions for yourself, you can give your consent to a DNR order verbally or in writing. If you lack capacity to make decisions for yourself, your health care agent can consent on your behalf.

Checklist for a valid hospital DNR order

Checklist for a valid non-hospital DNR order

Medical orders for life-sustaining treatment (MOLST)

The New York State DOH has approved the medical orders for life-sustaining treatment (MOLST) form. This form allows doctors to record your preferences regarding cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR), mechanical intervention, and other life sustaining treatments on one form as a physician order. To be valid, MOLST must be completed by a health care professional and signed by a physician licensed by New York.

A valid MOLST form serves as a “physician order form” and can be transferred with you from one health care setting to another. A sample MOLST form is available at the DOH website.

Remember, while the MOLST form may help centralize your end-of-life wishes and summarize your advance directives, it is not intended to replace your health care proxy form or living will. MOLST translates your current medical treatment preferences into physician orders whereas your health care proxy or living will guides future medical care.

Making your advance directives known

Health care proxy and living will

After signing your health care proxy or living will, follow these tips:

DNR orders

A hospital DNR order is recorded in your medical chart. A non-hospital DNR order must be recorded on a state-specific form. You may also consider getting a DNR bracelet.

To learn more about DNRs, form DOH-3474, or a DNR bracelet, visit this DOH page with DNR forms or your local DOH EMS office or health department.

If you don’t have an advance directive

If you have lost the capacity to make decisions about your medical treatment, and have not appointed a health care agent, a person close to you may make decisions on your behalf. In 2010 the New York Legislature passed the Family Health Care Decisions Act (FHCDA), 7 which allows family members and others who are close to you to make decisions regarding medical treatment in accordance with your wishes or, if unknown, your best interests. The “surrogate” decision maker would also be permitted to direct the withdrawal of life-sustaining treatment (including consenting to a DNR order).

The best way to ensure that your specific wishes are met is to select a health care proxy and complete a living will as described in this booklet. Otherwise, you will not be able to control how you receive care while you are incapable of making a decision.

Designation of a surrogate

If you are declared incapable of making medical decisions and do not have a health care proxy, the FHCDA provides for the designation of a “surrogate” decision maker to make medical decisions for you as outlined under New York law.

The law establishes a prioritized list by category of those who may act as the surrogate decision maker for the incapacitated person. The surrogate may be, in order of priority, the court-appointed guardian, spouse, child (18 years or older), parent, sibling (18 years or older), or close friend. 8 This person may also designate a person with lower priority to be the surrogate, assuming no one with higher priority can take the role. For example, if you do not have an Article 81 guardian and your spouse is not willing to serve, your willing adult child will be your surrogate. Your adult child may also appoint your willing parent as surrogate.

DNR bracelet

You can wear a DNR bracelet only if you have been issued a valid non-hospital DNR order using form DOH3474. The law requires emergency medical personnel who see a standard DNR bracelet on you to comply with the order.

Decisions a surrogate can make

The surrogate has authority to make all health care decisions that you would have been able to make prior to becoming incapacitated. 9 The surrogate is obligated to follow your religious or moral beliefs, if known. If those beliefs are not known, the surrogate must make decisions that will be in your best interests. 10 Surrogates are entitled to have access to your medical records in order to make decisions on your behalf. They may also seek out information from your doctor about your condition and treatment options to make the most-informed medical decisions. 11

Decisions to withdraw life-sustaining treatment

If you made the decision to withdraw life-sustaining treatment before becoming incapacitated, your doctor need not seek the surrogate’s permission or knowledge before following those orders. If your doctor followed those orders before your surrogate was appointed, he or she merely needs to document the action in your medical record. If your doctor intends to follow through on that decision after the appointment of a surrogate, your doctor may follow that order without permission from the surrogate, but must inform or attempt to inform the surrogate of the decision. 12

The law ensures that life sustaining treatment will not be withheld or withdrawn from you without serious consideration. For example, there must be a finding that treatment would be an extraordinary burden to you and an attending physician, with another physician, must concur to a reasonable degree of medical certainty. Other requirements include finding that you have an illness or injury which can be expected to cause death within six months, whether or not treatment is provided; or that you are permanently unconscious; or that treatment would involve such pain and suffering that it would be reasonably deemed inhumane or extraordinarily burdensome and that you have an irreversible or incurable condition. 13

Patient objections

As the patient, you may object to all of the following:

In the event you disagree with any of these determinations, your determination will be followed by your doctor. However, if a court determines that you lack capacity and (if applicable) authorizes the treatment decision, you cannot override these determinations.

Further, if there is some other legal basis for overriding your decisions, you will be subject to the choices made by your surrogate. 14

“If the patient’s wishes and beliefs are unknown, the surrogate must make decisions that will be in the patient’s best interests."

According to the FHCDA, those interests take into account “consideration of the dignity and uniqueness of every person; the possibility and extent of preserving the patient’s life; the preservation, improvement or restoration of the patient’s health or functioning; the relief of the patient’s suffering; and any medical condition and such other concerns and values as a reasonable person in the patient’s circumstances would wish to consider.”

The difference between a health care proxy and a surrogate

There are significant differences between a health care proxy and a surrogate. You should carefully consider the differences and think about naming a health care proxy instead of allowing a surrogate to be designated.

Health care proxy Surrogate
Who appoints them? You, via a properly executed health care proxy form The Family Medical Decisions Act establishes who may act as a surrogate
Who can serve? Anyone over the age of 18 In priority order: Article 81 guardians, spouses, children (over 18), parents, siblings (over 18), or close friends
When do they make decisions? When you lose capacity When you lose capacity
When do they stop making decisions? When you regain capacity, when the appointment expires, or under certain specified conditions, as written in the health care proxy form When you regain capacity
What decisions can they make? Any decision or those specified in the proxy form or living will Any decision
Any limitations? You are able to specify certain imitations in the proxy form Surrogates may only make decisions based on your religious or moral beliefs, or in the absence of those, your best interests

Canceling your advance directives

An advance directive remains in effect indefinitely unless you cancel it, include an expiration date, or describe the circumstances that trigger expiration. You can change or cancel your advance directives at any time. It is important to review the forms you have signed from time to time to make sure they express your current health care wishes.

Canceling your DNR

In general, you or your health care agent can cancel a DNR order at any time in any way that makes your wish known. This can include the following: